Tonight in our quarterly fellowship group leader/co-leader meeting I led a brief devotional I've entitled, "Filling Your Cup". The two passages of Scripture that I used to encourage and exhort us were:
Proverbs 4: 23 Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.
Luke 6:43-45 For no good tree bears bad fruit, nor again does a bad tree bear good fruit, for each tree is known by its own fruit. For figs are not gathered from thornbushes, nor are grapes picked from a bramble bush. The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.
As leaders and co-leaders of these fellowship groups, we are called to come each week and 'pour out' ourselves. We are to lead in worship, lead in prayer, lead through teaching and facilitating the study of God's Word. For us to be fruitful in this task, if we are to have anything to pour out into others, we need to have our cups full ourselves. I encouraged them, and I exhort all believers, to actively pursue spiritual disciplines that would provide nourishment, joy, encouragement, admonition in their own lives if they are to have a voice in the lives of others. I offered five areas of the practical pursuit of that which might edify us as we love, encourage, and edify others.
(Sidenote: #'s 1 and 2 are the hardest for me!)
1. Turn off the T.V.For most of us, the greatest obstacle we have in the pursuit of holiness and sanctification is 'time'. But, this is not entirely the case. The real obstacle is 'wasted time'. A great way to find more time in the week for the Lord, for your spouse, for your kids, for your friends, for your spiritual growth is to turn off the T.V. (and other modern gadgets of entertainment that have a tendency to suck the life and sould out of the average American). You will find so much more time in a given evening, you will go to bed earlier and so be more rested, you will be more able to rise early the next morning.
2. Rise Early.Whether you are a 'morning person' or not, it is generally true (if we can make it through that first 10 minutes or so waiting for the coffee to brew) that we are most effective and fruitful after a night of rest and before the onslaught of the day's issues. Early in the morning is generally the quietest part of the day. When we rise early to be with the Lord we establish that he is the first priority of that day, and of our lives. Don't be a legalist...but also, don't be a fool. Be a good steward of your life, give yourself moments of quiet in the Word, in prayer, and in setting the tone for another day that the Lord has made. Let God speak into you before everyone else and everything else does. This is a biblical reality, too- so you don't have to take my word for it: Psalm 5:3; 30:5; 59:16; 143:8.
3. Read your bible and pray daily. I use an
ESV Journaling Bible, it has nice big margins that I use to scribble notes and use for my prayer lists. There is a bible in a year calendar to follow in the back as well. Allow for time in God's Word that is not related to the study you are preparing for group this week, or the small group you are leading, etc. I am always amazed at how God providentially uses the various readings I'm going through daily to speak into the various teaching and speaking opportunities I have during the week. I really believe that a pursuit of the discipline of daily bible reading is absolutely critical to a believer's sanctification. Without this in your spiritual diet, you simply cannot grow and thrive. As best you can- chart and make notes of prayer items, needs, struggles as you read and pray. I love going back over the notes of the past to see how God is answered prayer and to be reminded toward diligence in praying for issues still pressing in.
4. Read good Christian books.Recommendation #1 is crucial to #4 being a reality. Even if you are not a 'reader'- it is imperative that you have great believers, thinkers, and scholars pouring into you from the labor and experience of their lives. I try to keep a short stack of books by my bedside for me to grab and work through as much as I can. There is a couple of stacks of books by my chair at my desk that I am always thumbing through. Here are a few good reading lists- ask for some of these titles for Christmas and your birthday- go online and pick three to work through over the coming weeks and months.
Mark Dever's reading list.Reformed Theological Seminary's List.C.J. Mahaney's reading list. I was going to post my own, but I really can't recommend anything beyond what these guys set before us. Maybe I'll get a list together later.
5. Listen to good preaching.If you don't have an mp3 player- well, what is wrong with you? Get with it! My ipod is one of my most treasured ministry resources. I am constantly downloading sermons for my daily run, my travel to and fro, for my own edification. I weekly listen to the passage that I am working on for Sunday preached by others. That way I am getting good preaching and not just giving it (at least I hope it's good, you can be the judge). Once you start downloading and following preachers and preaching- you won't want to stop, I promise. Here are some great preaching resources online for free:
The resource library of John Piper, of course. Ray Stedman.Martyn Lloyd-Jones.Spurgeon, Ryle, and others over at sermonaudio.comMessages and resources from Sovereign Grace Ministries.6. Cultivate Personal Worship.Are you pursuing the basic spiritual disciplines that God has given us to grow in grace?
Begin to build up resources for your own prayer life - here are some of my favorites:
The Valley of Vision. Book of Common Prayer.Resources from Donald Whitney.Praying for the world. Praying for the persecuted church. Build up resources for personal worship:
RUF Hymnbook.Cyberhymnal.The words and chords and even midi files of almost every praise song out there. Bob Kaughlin's worship blog- with insights, philosophy of worship, theological considerations, resourses, music, etc.
7. Develop meaningful relationships.I know this seems like a 'duh'. But sometimes as we serve others and minister in a variety of contexts we can find that we have not taken time to foster deep friendships. Pursue those of like mind and build friendships that hold you accountable in your spiritual life and help you grow. Develop relationships that are gospel centered and give you hope. Sometimes as we lead others we find that squeaky wheels are taking up all our grease. We can find ourselves dealing with people's problems and crises, but never finding time to hang out, and enjoy the blessing of fellowship and friendship.
Well, here are some ways I want to encourage you to 'guard your heart' and build up a 'good treasure' within. If that isn't happening, then soon the well will run dry. For those we serve, pursue these gospel blessings in our walk of sanctification.
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